Consider this wisdom from Oscar Wilde, “It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.” Which are you, charming or tedious
As you ponder the answer, keep in mind Wilde said it’s one or the other, there is no in-between.
If you can benefit from a lesson or so from charm school, Professor Henri Frédéric Amiel taught, “Charm is the quality in others that makes us more satisfied with ourselves.” Are folks more satisfied with themselves when they have an opportunity to spend time with you
If so, you may be charming. …